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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Importance of friendship between girls and maybe guys.

I had just read an article about how all men are pigs.

I can't say they all are, neither do I have the power or social greatness to comment much.

What do I know about men? I have known boys (cause' they've not gotten to their coming of age age.), and from various sources, some really are pigs.

But not from my circle, or am I too careless to notice?

Are all boys going to end up as pigs?

But from what I can infer, boys grow up to become bachelors and playboys, girls end up with the name 'spinsters' or 'old maid'. What has society done to limit us to these two choices?

Here is where we have to treasure friendship. This is where friendship is important amongst girls.

If you're a guy, you might not want to carry on reading.

For girls, we are a bunch of very sensitive and emotional creatures. With just a pinch of criticism, we'll already blow our top mentally, or go off to cry later on.

There is NO girl who is very emotionally-secure, and won't cry off after a harsh piece of news. Even if they don't cry, their ego would've been hurt. And covers it with saying something tough or laughing it off.

So, staying together as friends is very important. Here is my point why.
Even if we're married and grow old, if we won't keep friendship real and stay close as possible, instead you go on with your family and not care at all. Men die first, that's the hard truth. Then we're all back to square one being single and where friendship is our priority.

We need an emotional safety net to keep from breaking down, and ending up in dying earlier.

It's a battle to keep friendships going, and during this holidays, keeping each other posted is pretty difficult since we're not going to school to see each other everyday.

Make the effort to meet up once in while, don't avoid them. You'll never know what free will may present you. But trust me, once you're too old to do what you like when you're younger, it will be a lonely road for you if you have a $1000 chip on your shoulders.

We make most of our best friendships and relationships from Secondary school/High school. Cherish them, love them, do not kill them, nor avoid them. Especially when you've already known someone long-term.

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